tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post2920016808229389231..comments2024-01-22T21:12:20.299+11:00Comments on Lilly's Life: Hitting the BullseyeLillyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-53727977509320309522008-04-25T22:28:00.000+10:002008-04-25T22:28:00.000+10:00Babyamore - 43 things is ok I think. With everythi...Babyamore - 43 things is ok I think. With everything you have on your plate I think you are achieving great things. Will pay you a visit.Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-62221728622071557482008-04-24T22:05:00.000+10:002008-04-24T22:05:00.000+10:00I planned to do 101 in 1001 days but I haven't got...I planned to do 101 in 1001 days but I haven't got past my 43 things.<BR/><BR/>I am trying to set goals but it just hasn't happened yet. <BR/><BR/>Maybe on my birthday I will start the first 10 ...♥.Trish.♥ Drumboyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13482654455512269065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-69803005237498269372008-04-24T22:00:00.000+10:002008-04-24T22:00:00.000+10:00macnelly family adventures - well you know balance...macnelly family adventures - well you know balance is probably the key. So dont change and between you and your husband you will have all bases covered. I wouldnt change the status quo and just be yourself.Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-44306544487021804292008-04-24T01:18:00.000+10:002008-04-24T01:18:00.000+10:00Well your post has challenged me to be a little mo...Well your post has challenged me to be a little more structured in my life. Although I am a “flower child” so to speak by nature, I need to be more focused on the tasks that I need to achieve. My life is, as you referenced more about 'thinking in colours and curves'. <BR/><BR/>This tends to drive my husband crazy because he is the total opposite. He’s more of a thinker too. A planner, see’s things that “can happen” as a result of this or that. I on the other hand tend to shut down when I have to plan, plan, plan. <BR/><BR/>I guess I’m more of a creative thinker. I think this gives some balance to my marriage and even though it can drive Brett crazy at times, it’s one of the things he loves about me. :) I will for his sake try a bit harder though. lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-80255970005278420162008-04-23T08:50:00.000+10:002008-04-23T08:50:00.000+10:00Hi Evita - that was really profound and it looks l...Hi Evita - that was really profound and it looks like you have found what works for you. True, it does cause you stress thinking in the future instead of the present - I guess its all about finding what is works and causes the least stress. Thanks for visiting by the way and for your very good advice.Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-24235401033886694552008-04-23T07:58:00.000+10:002008-04-23T07:58:00.000+10:00Lilly - it is good to plan...but I personally pref...Lilly - it is good to plan...but I personally prefer to live and focus on the present moment, I find there is so much less anxiety and stress in life when one does that. It does not mean that I can't or don't plan for the future, I just focus more on "being" in the now and it makes all the "thinking" disappear. I know completely what you mean when you say you "think too much". I used to be there, but now, I just let life be. I know some people will never be able to attain or comprehend how one can live that way, but it is very freeing. Sure I need to plan an appointment here or a visit there and I set aside chunks of "planning time". Other than that I think the goals in our life should be more directed toward "being" rather than "achieving". Just my two cents on the topic and again I realize that kind of lifestyle may seriously scare and immobilize some people but it is wonderful if one gives it a try :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-37663561517033682322008-04-22T08:56:00.000+10:002008-04-22T08:56:00.000+10:00Horatio Salt - I think you are one of those people...Horatio Salt - I think you are one of those people who need never be enclosed by structure let alone dream about it. Thanks for dropping by.<BR/><BR/>Jon - you are right, its all about setting achievable goals, at least to start with. Something I am really used to in a business context but it kind of goes out the window in other areas of my life. Thanks for dropping by.Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-74008315510328490852008-04-22T06:41:00.000+10:002008-04-22T06:41:00.000+10:00Hi lilly, setting goals in your life is a good thi...Hi lilly, setting goals in your life is a good thing, provided you only set goals that you can achieve.<BR/>If you set yourself goals that are too high and you don't achieve them it can be very demoralizing.Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14629046815891618029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1339261543193718354.post-80081125952570402422008-04-22T06:03:00.000+10:002008-04-22T06:03:00.000+10:00i'm a dreamer who dreams that someday i'll be a pl...i'm a dreamer who dreams that someday i'll be a planner...horatio salthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02089447145562619151noreply@blogger.com